Throughout life, a person faces a number of difficulties that are directly related to their age. Together with an astropsychologist, we figure out in which years of life you need to be especially careful, and how to overcome difficulties without harming yourself.
Life is not a straight and smooth road, no matter how much we would like it to be. We are constantly faced with difficult turns, slippery places – somewhere you need to speed up, and somewhere, on the contrary, stop and look around. How to recognize dangerous periods, meet them with an open soul, and safely pass? An expert in revealing human potential, astropsychologist Yulia Terentyeva will tell you about this.
We have all heard the expressions “tough adolescence” or “midlife crisis.” These are the periods when a person rethinks their path and asks questions about what they bring to this world and whether they are doing what their soul is inclined to do. These moments can be difficult and overwhelming, and therefore are considered dangerous. Important milestones occur throughout life, and we will now examine them in more detail.
Up to 36 years: gaining independence and finding yourself
The first difficult moment comes at 12-14 years old, when the child becomes a teenager. His personality and worldview are formed, and the understanding comes that the parental home is a temporary shelter, and you need to find your own way. The choice of a future profession, the first important decision. It is good if it is at this age that children earn their first money – this will help them adapt to the realities of adult life and realize the responsibility for what they do.
At 21, a person is ready to become independent, live separately from their parents, and manage money and time. They are full of ideas, and most importantly, they are ready to actively implement plans and ambitions. Among 24 the many goals, the main one stands out, in which a person wants to become an expert. This period is also dangerous, since there is a high risk of not finding your calling and remaining at an intermediate stage for a long time. In such cases, it is worth giving up doubts and trying new things – only practice and getting out of your comfort zone will help you find what you need.
As a test of mental strength, at 27 years of age, a person may face difficult trials. To overcome the difficulties of this period and conquer fear, you need to understand it, look it in the eye, and find strength for a new round of development.
After 36: Following the Soul Program
By the age of 30-36, the search for one’s purpose is complete. Chances to realize one’s place in the world will still present themselves, but the sooner a person does this, the more harmonious the rest of his or her life will be. After 36, it is advisable to follow the program of the soul and devote time and energy to various areas of life – work, family, health, and creativity. This approach will help to correctly prioritize and allow enjoying life to the fullest.
A serious crisis awaits a person at 41-42 years old, when a premonition of future old age appears – he understands that he can no longer say that he has everything ahead of him. But, most importantly, do not fall into despondency, boredom, or depression. Creative activities, spiritual practices, and self-knowledge will help to overcome this dangerous turn and reveal new facets of the soul.
If an individual has something “obsolete” and unnecessary in his soul that pulls him back, this will be especially clear by the age of 44-45. It is during this period that it is time to remove from the path a failed marriage or an unloved job, like old broken things – such a decision will help to close all unresolved matters and allow you to move on.
At 55-57 years old, a person continues to implement the program of their inner “I”, to show personal talents. You will have to answer the question once again: what is my purpose, what would I like to change? It is not too late to discover something new in yourself, to master something that has been postponed for a long time, for example, a hobby for which there was no time before, and to live happily.
What to do if you can’t solve life’s problems?
A person does not always manage to successfully overcome dangerous sections of life’s road. Gaining independence, understanding one’s place are difficult tasks that one can try to solve for many years and still not achieve the goal.
If a person does not provide for themselves by the age of 21-24, there is a risk of never separating from their parents and remaining a dependent person. If the choice of path at 36 led “in the wrong direction”, a person feels anxious, despondent, because subconsciously they understand that they are not living their own life and something important is passing them by ( read also : 6 questions to ask yourself if you want to start from scratch ).
It would seem that there is a stable job or family, but there is no happiness. Fatigue and stress accumulate, and at some point, a person is covered by an avalanche of trials: illness, career collapse, breakup of a relationship. This is a dangerous period. Such events can be so traumatic that sometimes people cannot stand it and leave this life.
Fortunately, it is within our power not only to survive turning points without severe shocks, but also to extract new resources for development from them.
Much has been said about finding your purpose, and it is the main task at any age. Understanding your path is the key to a smooth, harmonious life. A deep understanding of your desires, the work that your soul lies in, is necessary. Having spent energy on finding your path, you will be able to answer the questions: what am I bringing into this world, and am I fulfilling my purpose?
How should one proceed to solve this problem?
- Analyze and understand your purpose. For this purpose, natal chart analysis, together with an astropsychologist and constant self-analysis, will help
- Don’t get hung up on one area, forgetting about others. A career built at the expense of family is just as destructive as a complete loss of independence in a relationship.
- Don’t be afraid to set ambitious goals, learn, and create. This is especially important in the first half of life, but development needs to continue further.
- Separate what is imposed by society from your inner desires, and do not follow someone else’s path
- Be sure to pay attention to your health. Development requires a lot of strength, both spiritual and physical.
And, most importantly, if at some point you realize that you have taken a wrong turn, it is not too late to return to your purpose. Re-evaluate your experience, listen to yourself, and move on. This knowledge will help you overcome any turning point with benefit for your soul and will allow you to easily sail along the path of life in harmony with yourself and the world.
