Why the beautiful marriage of Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt collapsed.
Let’s put aside all the rumors and gossip and leave only the facts, which eloquently say that not only this, but any marriage of Angelina’s is doomed.
They were together for more than 10 years, and it seemed that both had long ago made a choice in favor of family. In all interviews, he called her the best woman and mother in the world, and she praised his fatherly and masculine qualities. The idyll ended on September 19, 2016. And, if you think about it, this union lasted much longer than it should have—the energy of self-destruction is too strong in Angelina.
Men are not trustworthy
And then there was a glitch: Pitt turned out to be unusually constant.
Nevertheless, for several years, rumors about jealousy scenes that Angelina allegedly staged for her husband, suspecting Pitt of affairs with her co-stars, have appeared in the press now and then. Whether such family squabbles took place is unknown, but Marion Cotillard, who starred with Brad in the film “Allied”, had to justify herself, denying the relationship with Pitt attributed to her, for real.
You can’t forgive “such things”
Inability to forgive is one of Angelina’s key traits, which greatly spoils her life. A person who has once stumbled will no longer be part of her inner circle. She prefers not to forgive guilty people, but to erase them from her life. The most striking example of this is her relationship with her father.
As a child, Angelina changed her last name from Voight to Jolie because she didn’t want to have anything to do with her father, whom she couldn’t forgive for betraying their family. True, according to her passport, she was still “Angelina Jolie Voight” in 2002, however, she got rid of this formality.
The only attempt at a “reboot” was the joint work of Jolie and Voight in the film “Lara Croft: Tomb Raider”, but they quarreled several times on the set, after which Angie said that she did not want to have anything to do with her biological dad. For a long time, Voight did not meet Angelina’s children in person – she was categorically against these meetings. And the actor mainly learns about all the details of his daughter’s life from the news.
And the same Voight, in response to the news of Jolie and Pitt’s divorce, said: “Something serious had to happen for Angie to take such a step.” Something serious that Jolie cannot and does not want to forgive her now ex-husband, despite 10 years of relationship and six children. We wrote about this in detail in the article Brangelina’s Divorce Strategy: 2:0 in Jolie’s Favor.
In 2014, information leaked to the press that Jolie and Pitt’s eldest biological daughter, Shiloh Nouve,l told her parents that she felt like a boy and asked to be called John. The child was eight years old at the time, and Angelina persistently dressed her daughter in boys’ clothes and gave her entertainment and toys for boys for about seven years.
Any psychologist will tell you that the mother chooses the child’s gender. And by providing the child with clothes that are not typical for his gender, encouraging the choice of toys characteristic of the other gender, the mother carries out a substitution of gender identity. At one and a half to two years old, it is not the girl who decides that she is a boy, but the mother who consistently develops in the girl a craving for men’s clothing and an interest in men’s games.
“A child’s non-standard behavior always indicates troubles in the family. The most important person for a child is the mother, whose unconscious desires affect us from birth. When a mother glances at a child, the child notices an involuntary change in her facial expression when discussing his gender. Thus, a child can develop discomfort from what nature has given them since childhood. As a result, he tries to transform himself to be loved by his mother,” comments psychologist Anatoly Dobin.
Just a few years ago, a woman who was called the main sex symbol of our time shone next to Brad Pitt on the red carpet. And then Angie began to have surgeries to prevent estrogen-dependent cancer.
In 2013, the actress revealed the shocking news to her fans that she had undergone a mastectomy. “I chose to share my story because there are so many women who don’t know they are living in the shadow of cancer. I hope that they, too, will be able to have their genes tested, and if they are found to be at high risk for the disease, they will know they have a choice,” Jolie wrote in a statement published in The New York Times.
And two years later, a new message appeared: the actress removed her ovaries for the same purpose – to prevent the risk of developing cancer, since, according to tests, the probability was 50%. After this procedure, Jolie wrote that she was now in a state of artificially induced premature menopause. This, of course, could not help but affect her appearance ( read also: Advice from an astropsychologist: in what periods of life should you be especially careful ).
A year after yet another manipulation of her body, there was no trace left of the sex symbol. The media vied with each other to write about how Angelina Jolie was rapidly losing weight; photos of the haggard star, really very thin and seemingly dried up, were published on the Internet now and then. Which is not surprising, if you take into account the physiological processes occurring in her body after the removal of all female sex glands.
Jolie, in self-defense, began wrapping herself in voluminous cashmere ponchos, which only fueled talk of her ill health. At the same time, she stopped appearing at official social events in the company of her husband.
Life is pain
Even as a child, Angelina intentionally hurt herself, which, according to her, was “therapy to help her feel alive.” She collected knives, which she used to cut herself. The craving for torturing her body later transformed into a love of tattoos, of which the actress continues to have more and more each year.
And in 2013, this idea entered into synergy with the fear of death. The result is breast removal for relative indications (most clinics will not remove a healthy organ based on imperfect genetic probability tests, but for money and for Angelina Jolie, anything is possible).
For the same reason, Angelina has always been drawn and continues to be drawn to where she can encounter, if not the source of pain, then its victims. “Every morning I receive a report from the UN about crimes against women that are being committed right now in twenty countries,” this is the kind of morning mail Jolie reads, according to her
Agree, not every woman will be able to live in an uninterrupted flow of information about mass rapes and abuse of other women. Angie not only collects this information for her work at the UN, but also meets victims herself during her regular trips to refugee camps. Where, by the way, she increasingly took her children, neglecting their safety (which became another reason for quarrels with her husband).
Political career
In an interview with French Marie Claire in 2016, when asked if she was going to go into big politics, Angie said directly: “If I can be useful to my country, to the world, and for that I need to become a politician, then why not?” However, initially, Angie did not intend to get involved in the big game herself. Her “business project” was Brad, just as Bill once became Hillary Clinton’s business project.
Jolie looked up to Hilary, initially trying to advance her husband up the political ladder. In interviews that have been forgotten over the years, Angelina has more than once, half-jokingly said that Pitt has all the qualities to one day become president.